The Children of Rempang

Playing during recess time in between lessons and a mock oral exam. The children gather outside one of the classrooms and play in the drain nearby. They're a high spirited bunch and love having the photo taken for the most part, posing happily for the camera.

This was a fortnight before their English exam and the team from Singapore was there as they usually are, every fortnight, to teach and conduct an oral examination. Participation from the students is voluntary since it is a Sunday but the turnout is usually good with classes largely about 20+ in size from primary one to six or as they term it, Class 1 to Class 6. The students range in age as well as they sometimes start later than would normally be the case in a more developed country.

Squelching through the Mud

The wind in my face, the dogs on the leash, running with me. The mud squelching beneath my shoes as I brush through the grass to the narrow strip of land beside the canal. It's' a little piece of freedom to walk my dogs in a busy city filled cheek to jowl with people rushing here and rushing there. But on a slightly wet Saturday morning, on a piece of grass no one goes to because it's too muddy, I have the space to myself and my dogs. That's freedom.

I share it with the kingfisher, which swoops past periodically and if I get too close. A flash of blue and brown and red. He fishes in the large monsoon drain I walk past. The egrets are around this time of the year, migrating from north to south away from the wintry lands. So I see maybe one or two of those. Sometimes a little grey one, sometimes a pair of large white mature ones.

I see little wild weeds with little bell like flowers and purple centres or little mimosa plants with leaves that close if I touch them. I see the dwarf coconut tree, bearing fruit. The old tyre that has been there so long, it's half covered with grass growing over, embedding it into the earth as part of the landscape.

My dogs love it. And I do too. Sometimes I sit with them next to me, savouring the silence and peace and solitude with just my dogs for company. It's not that I'm alone as there stacks of flats just across, towering above and a construction site nearby with private condominiums sprouting up. So I'm never alone. But I feel alone enough that it feels good. There is a peace that nature and solitude bring that cannot be had otherwise.

The Singapore Social Inequality Map

Inspired by David Brooks


Welcome to Singapore. It’s a tiny place and we all have to get along for life to be bearable. So here’s a brief guide to the social mores of inequality for our many visitors and foreigners who come to spend time with us.

We are a nation of whiners and whingers. We love complaining. We complain about everything under the sun. From the excessive amount of rain and floods (why can’t the Public Utilitiy Board engineers read God’s mind as they have done so well before and what have we become, a third world country?) to too much sun, to crowded (albeit excellent) transport infrastructure., we complain about everything.

However, like it is in many families, I may complain about my little Red Dot but that is because it is mine and it is home. Do be aware that while you are welcome, there are a few social norms to be observed while complaining about inequality in general.

Food inequality is not acceptable along ethnic lines or foods dear to the Singaporean stomach. You may not like durian or curry smells emanating from your neighbour’s home but you may not complain about them. Instead you must consider them to be an integral part of the exotic landscape. You may even be fed some strange food like fish-head curry and are expected to slurp up and enjoy it or be a good sport and at least taste it.

Food inequality is otherwise acceptable within narrow bands. For example queuing up for hours for your favourite bak chor mee (a minced meat noodle dish) with or without ter kwa (liver slices) or doughnuts while there are many perfectly acceptable substitutes nearby is seen as normal. As is raving about it in minute detail for a good half hour in polite conversation afterwards.

Academic inequality is acceptable at University level. It is perfectly acceptable to indicate which university you’re from whether it is the local universities or the Ivy League or Oxbridge or a London based university. Or any university for that matter. You may do this by subtly referring to it in your conversations or by wearing some university insignia or shirt with a logo.

Income inequality is acceptable only if you happen to be in the upper echelons in which case you barely notice it after all you earned it. For hoi polloi it is gradually becoming less acceptable. So, try not to brag about how much you earn. Instead you may endear yourself and underscore your social status indirectly by your largesse as in buying your employees, friends, generally lesser economic beings lunch or dinner. You need to figure out who earns the most at a table and if it is you, grab the bill when it arrives while the others put up a show of fighting for the bill but you must be sure to end up the payer if you’re the biggest earner.

Religious inequality is still generally unacceptable. It is wrong to look down on other people’s beliefs even if you consider them erroneous and your own faith is blindingly obvious. It is acceptable to share your beliefs provided it is done in the spirit of understanding.

Racial inequality is not acceptable. However we are so relaxed about race, we can often freely ask what someone else’s racial heritage which may come as a surprise to visitors from more politically correct climes. We can also shock visitors by sometimes discussing prejudices but you should refrain from making any comments. Do remember, regardless of our skin colour, we have all done Basic Military Training together, at least the guys have and in the light of a sergeant yelling in our ear, our colour matters not particularly when we’re all sprouting deep suntans and botak (shaven) heads anyway.

Toy inequality is definitely acceptable. You may line up for hours outside a fast food joint because it offers a Hello Kitty or other cult toy gift with your happy meal and you may crow when you are one of the successful ones. However it is not acceptable to start a brawl because someonone cuts in front of you.

Transport inequality is acceptable in a mild form. You may be very proud of your car which you will have paid through your nose for but any boasting should be restrained to remarks on how well the car handles or how comfortable and convenient it is for your children or elderly parents. After all, your car will speak for itself. You may also complain about the ERP (road tolls), traffic and parking problems to underscore your car ownership.

Job inequality is generally acceptable and often tied to the money it brings in. Bankers and doctors rank high on the social scale. Yes, even now despite the slight taint from the broken banking system and evident systemic greed. Teachers used to have a higher status but while still respected have fallen lower in the hierarchy since they now earn relatively less. Even gamblers have a high social status as long as you have several million dollars to play. However politicians ranking pay with job worth has become distinctly less acceptable of late since they are now paid quite a bit.

Space inequality is acceptable. Owning a landed property or private condominium is seen as having “arrived” and you are duly allowed to boast gently about it but only very gently. Like cars, your property will speak for itself. If you want to fit in, it is better to talk about your HDB neighbourhood unless you already move in exaulted circles.

Sports inequality is entirely acceptable. If you are a hobby tri-athelete you may moan about how hard the swim was while showing off your tight buns in a figure hugging outfit.

Technological inequality is entirely acceptable. Boasting you have just updated your phone as soon as you became eligible on your telco billing plan for the latest iphone is entirely acceptable. Showing off how much you know how to convert your last smart phone to a remote control for your high definition TV set is fine if you can do it.

Welcome to Singapore. We are an egalitarian (although less so now), meritocratic society, dedicated to a hedonistic enjoyment of food and shopping and having fewer kids so we can enjoy our shrinking apartments. Instead we welcome fully grown foreigners to make up for our baby shortfall, so welcome

Night Walk around Marina Bay

I have to say that the Singapore skyline around the Marina Bay area now looks spectacular at night. I took this shot while at the F1 race earlier this year. I've not been up though onto the Sky Gardens at Marina Bay Sands building which is the tall tombstone like 3 blocks in the background. It costs S$20 per visit and it's apparently spectacular. So one day I shall go. Oh and one of my favourite things about living in the tropics is that walking out in the evening is lovely as it's cool but not cold and in Singapore, remarkably safe so strolling out with friends is really nice particularly with stunning views like this.

Spot the Difference

These were a trade sample. But as I photographed, them, I realised other than being left and right, they weren't identical. I was really impressed with the level of detailed attention to even the eyelets which had the brand names on it.

I still think of them as souped-up batas though with that wonderful white mesh fabric. Certainly would have qualified me to be the best dressed convent girl.

For anyone who's curious, these are original Feiyue's direct from the French owners. Not grey goods.

Tiger Prawns for Dinner

This was at a seafood restaurant along Patong Beach where the customer can choose his seafood, and it is then cooked for him. The tiger prawns are really tiger sized and succulent since they are so very fresh. However I would say that the quality of the cooking was watered down in flavour compared to what Singaporeans are used to. Evidently the cooks are catering to blander palates with less robust flavours. Pity. Nevertheless it was still a very enjoyable dinner.

Patong Beach

I just came back from Phuket, Thailand on a corporate beach holiday. As the company I went with is young, hip and happening, we stayed on Patong Beach, the most built-up, well known, beach in town. While it is not a place I would have picked on my own, I was very pleasantly surprised indeed by the hotel we stayed in: The Sea Patong

Despite the punny name, it was a hidden gem. It cost us less than S$50 per room per night (with each room taking two people). It's conveniently located since it is within walking distance of Patong Beach, all the shops, pharmacies, pubs along Patong and even a major shopping centre, JunkCeylon, is within walking distance. And no, I'm not being paid for this blog entry.

The food was excellent too on the roof top by the pool dining. And drinks in the sister hotel, The Nap, next door, were reasonably priced and made with fresh juices (and of course the required alcohol). All at 20% off.

However, the price we paid is probably not going to last as it is a young hotel less than a year old and we went in an off peak season. So get it while it lasts! A stylish, modern hip hotel at budget prices. Just make sure you don't lose any of the beach towels on the beach as at that price, they're bound to charge you for any lost items.